ACT Values Assessment
Values work is the heart of ACT. Think of this as a quick ACT values quiz: in about ten minutes, sort 63 common values, choose the five that matter most, and see how closely your daily actions line up with them.
Understanding Your Values Assessment
What are ACT values?
In Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), values are chosen life directions, the qualities you want to embody in how you treat yourself, other people, and the world. They aren't feelings, and they aren't rules. Compassion, honesty, growth, connection: these are ways of being you can act on in any moment, regardless of how you feel.
Values clarification is one of the six core processes of the ACT model, alongside acceptance, cognitive defusion, present-moment awareness, self-as-context, and committed action. Research across hundreds of randomized controlled trials suggests that people who can name their values, and act on them even when it's uncomfortable, show greater psychological flexibility, which is ACT's central mechanism of change.
How are values different from goals?
A goal can be completed; a value never can. "Get promoted" is a goal. Once it happens, it's done. "Challenge" or "mastery" is a value, a direction you keep moving in for as long as you choose. Goals are destinations; values are the compass heading.
This distinction matters clinically. High-achieving people are often excellent at goals and disconnected from values. You can hit every milestone (the degree, the title, the salary) and still feel hollow, because milestones were never the point. When clients tell me "I have everything I wanted and I don't know why I'm miserable," values work is usually where we start.
What does the gap between importance and action mean?
The assessment above asks you to rate each of your top five values twice: how much it matters to you, and how consistently you've actually lived it over the past week. The difference between those two numbers is your values–action gap.
A large gap is not a verdict on your character. It's information. Gaps usually point to avoidance, the places where anxiety, busyness, or old habits have quietly steered your behavior away from what matters. In ACT terms, the gap shows you where psychological inflexibility is costing you the most, and therefore where committed action will pay off the most.
What should I do when my actions don't align with my values?
Start small and start specific. Pick the value with the largest gap and ask: what is one concrete thing I could do this week that someone watching could see? If connection scored a gap of six, that might be a fifteen-minute phone call, not a personality overhaul. In ACT this is called committed action: small, workable steps in a valued direction, taken with the discomfort rather than after it goes away.
If the same gaps keep showing up no matter what you try, or if looking at them stirred up more than you expected, that's often a sign the obstacle isn't a scheduling problem but an internal one: anxiety, intrusive thoughts, burnout, or grief that deserves real attention. That's the work ACT therapy is built for.
Is this assessment a diagnostic tool?
No. This is an educational self-reflection exercise based on common values used in ACT clinical practice, not a validated psychometric instrument, and it doesn't diagnose or treat any condition. If you're struggling, a conversation with a licensed clinician is the right next step. You can reach me through the contact page for a free 15-minute intro call.
One honest note to close on. If the same gaps keep coming back no matter what you try, the obstacle usually isn't a scheduling problem. Anxiety, intrusive thoughts, old trauma, or a relationship stuck in the same fight will quietly steer your behavior away from your values, and that is the part of this work I actually treat. If you recognize yourself in any of those, you can read how I work with anxiety and OCD, trauma, or couples.
Written by Dr. Olivier van Hauwermeiren, PsyD. Licensed Clinical Psychologist, ACT & CBT
Examples of ACT Values
These are the 63 values you sort in the exercise above, drawn from the lists commonly used in ACT clinical practice. None of them is more "correct" than another. The point is to notice which few pull at you most strongly. Read them as examples if you are building your own values list, or as a primer before you take the assessment.
- Acceptance
- To be open to and accepting of myself, others, and life.
- Adventure
- To actively seek, create, or explore novel or stimulating experiences.
- Assertiveness
- To respectfully stand up for my rights and request what I want.
- Authenticity
- To be genuine, real, and true to myself.
- Autonomy
- To be self-determined and independent.
- Beauty
- To appreciate, create, or cultivate beauty in myself or the environment.
- Caring
- To take care of and be helpful toward others.
- Challenge
- To take on difficult tasks and keep growing.
- Compassion
- To act with kindness toward those who are suffering.
- Connection
- To engage fully and be fully present with others.
- Contribution
- To help, assist, or make a positive difference to others.
- Cooperation
- To be collaborative and work well with others.
- Courage
- To persist in the face of fear, threat, or difficulty.
- Creativity
- To be innovative and have new or original ideas.
- Curiosity
- To be open-minded and interested; to explore and discover.
- Dependability
- To be reliable and trustworthy.
- Equality
- To treat others as equal to myself.
- Excitement
- To seek activities that are stimulating or thrilling.
- Fairness
- To be fair and just to myself and others.
- Fitness
- To maintain or improve my physical and mental health.
- Flexibility
- To adjust and adapt readily to changing circumstances.
- Forgiveness
- To let go of anger or resentment toward myself or others.
- Freedom
- To choose how I live and behave.
- Friendship
- To have close, supportive friends.
- Fun
- To play, be fun-loving, and seek enjoyment.
- Generosity
- To share and give to myself or others.
- Gratitude
- To be appreciative of the positive aspects of myself, others, and life.
- Growth
- To keep changing, developing, and improving.
- Honesty
- To be truthful and sincere.
- Humility
- To be modest and let my achievements speak for themselves.
- Humor
- To see and appreciate the humorous side of life.
- Industry
- To work hard and well at my life tasks.
- Independence
- To be free from dependence on others.
- Inner Peace
- To experience personal and spiritual tranquility.
- Intimacy
- To share my innermost experiences with others.
- Justice
- To promote fair and equal treatment for all.
- Kindness
- To be considerate, nurturing, and caring toward myself and others.
- Knowledge
- To learn and contribute valuable information.
- Leisure
- To take time to relax and enjoy life.
- Loving
- To give love and affection to others.
- Mastery
- To be highly competent in my everyday activities.
- Mindfulness
- To live conscious and mindful of the present moment.
- Openness
- To be receptive to new experiences, ideas, and options.
- Order
- To have a life that is well-ordered and organized.
- Passion
- To have deep feelings about ideas, activities, or people.
- Patience
- To wait calmly for what I want, without rushing myself or others.
- Persistence
- To keep going, even when things are hard.
- Purpose
- To have meaning and direction in my life.
- Rationality
- To be guided by reason and logic.
- Respect
- To treat myself and others with care and consideration.
- Responsibility
- To make and carry out responsible decisions.
- Romance
- To have intense, exciting love in my life.
- Safety
- To secure and protect my own safety and the safety of others.
- Self-Acceptance
- To accept myself completely as I am.
- Self-Awareness
- To notice and understand my own thoughts, feelings, and actions.
- Self-Care
- To look after my health and wellbeing, and get my needs met.
- Sensuality
- To create or enjoy experiences that delight the senses.
- Sexuality
- To explore and express my sexuality.
- Simplicity
- To live life simply, with minimal needs.
- Skillfulness
- To keep practicing and improving the things I do.
- Spirituality
- To connect with something bigger than myself.
- Supportiveness
- To be encouraging, helpful, and available to others.
- Trust
- To be loyal, faithful, sincere, and reliable.
Want to go deeper on how to choose and act on these? Read ACT values: examples, exercises, and how to use them.
