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      <description>Perfectionism and anxiety go hand-in-hand for high performers. A New York-licensed psychologist explains the research and how therapy can stop the cycle.</description>
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      <description>ERP therapy for OCD is the gold-standard treatment, but most people don&apos;t know why reassurance keeps OCD alive. A psychologist explains how ERP works.</description>
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